But if you're not keen on doing anal, or eating someone out - using a finger can be a great way to ease into it.Īlso for guys or people with prostates it can apparently be one of the best orgasms of your life, all thanks to a lil' nugget of gold called the prostate aka p-spot.
Who knew digging for treasure could open a world of pleasure? Here's what you told us. You know we love an investigation here at The Hook Up so, we asked you on our Instagram if you liked a finger in the bum during sex, and 46% of you said you loved it. We also asked cis straight men specifically if they were into it and over half of you said yes. Teale - My partner introduced me to bum play when we first got together.Zac from Naarm, Melbourne - I started experimenting on my own with it, and then had some partners who were super open about it, and kind of encouraged me to get into it.BUT nearly 60% of you said you were too embarrassed to ask for it. Gerry from Eora Nation, Sydney - I'm always up to try new things during sex.Personally, some of our best sex has started with me giving him a little lick and progressing to a finger or a toy after and it's always fantastic. Jess from Geelong - It's something that I don't have much experience with.But I think the main thing is I'm really self conscious about having a hairy ass and I would also feel really embarrassed if they got poop on their finger or something like that.
Cameron - I was talking to my partner and she said 'are you interested in doing that kind of thing?' And I thought 'oh yeah give it a go'.But there's definitely a need for trust and communication. We jumped in the shower, and she was nice enough to give me a blowjob with a finger in the bum.
Whether someone asked you to do it, or you're keen to have someone do it to you, here's everything you need to know about anal fingering.Īnd I think it probably ended up better for her because it didn't last as long. Most people who dm'd us saying they used their fingers to dabble in a bit of ass play, gave glowing reviews.